Episode 7

Will Smith, Chris Rock and What Slapgate Says About Our Culture

Published on: 4th April, 2022

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Guest Vanessa L. Wilde (a fellow abuse survivor whose story is told in a future episode), joins Jackie in discussing Slapgate in the light of abuse. What does this incident say about our culture and do we need to change?

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More to Explore from the Episode:

Take a read of my article on Medium about Slapgate


More about Jada and alopecia


Laura Richards’ Podcast, Crime Analyst


Laura Richards’ Instagram post about Jada


Amy Shumer’s response to Slapgate: traumatizing


PHENOMENAL interaction between Oprah and Amy Shumer talking about their abuse experiences


Tiffany Haddish’s surprising Slapgate response


Article telling white women and abuse victims that Slapgate is not about us


Book about Cluster B’s and lack of empathy: Psychopath Free by Jackson MacKenzie


20% of the population are Cluster B Personality Disordered abusers: The Empath’s Guide to Evading Energy Vampires by Christiane Northrup


Guide to Gaslighting 


Will Smith’s autobiography


Glorifying suffering in faith traditions and why it’s problematic in an abuse conversation: a case study of the Pearls


One last thoughtful perspective on Slapgate and violence


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Abuse Isn't What You Think
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With a unique background in music, communication and the arts, Seattle, Nashville and London based transformational keynote speaker/singer/songwriter/podcaster and author Jackie Graybill inspires and transforms her audiences.

Jackie has taught piano for the past 22 years, has lit up the stage in eight plays and musicals and placed in the Top 10 as Miss Puget Sound 2006 at Miss America’s Miss Washington Pageant. She has released two albums and multiple singles to Spotify success (as Jackie Gray). She is also a Toastmasters International Speech Contest Winner for District 9 in 2021.

Jackie’s colorful life came crashing down into darkness when she found herself in an abusive marriage. Now free, and an overcomer who holds a Masters in Understanding Domestic and Sexual Violence, Jackie combines her original music with a message of hope by helping others recognize, escape and heal from abusive relationships.

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