Episode 10

How Can I Change My Relationship Patterns?

Published on: 30th May, 2022

Jackie Graybill interviews Regina Andler about her experience as a teenager and how she has healed her life. Regina is a Jack Canfield Success Principles Certified Coach and is the founder and CEO of Autumn Ascent Consulting. She can be found at her website and her Facebook group.

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Recommendations in the Episode:


Information

The Cycle of Abuse

What is Coercive Control?

Lundy Bancroft’s 9 Types of Male Abusers

The 5 Stages of Grief

Mirror Meditation

What is The Law of Attraction?

E+R=O (Event + Response = the Outcome)

It takes 7 times, on average, to leave an abusive relationship for good

Your Gut is Your Second Brain

Financial abuse is found in 98% of all cases of abuse


Books

Boundaries: When to Say Yes, How to Say No To Take Control of Your Life by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend

Coercive Control: How Men Entrap Women in Personal Life by Evan Stark

The Success Principles: How to Get from Where You Are to Where You Want to Be by Jack Canfield

The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize It and How to Respond by Patricia Evans

Why Does He Do That: Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men by Lundy Bancroft

The Verbally Abusive Man: Can He Change? A Woman’s Guide to Deciding Whether to Stay Or Go By Patricia Evans

Dodging Energy Vampires: An Empath's Guide to Evading Relationships That Drain You and Restoring Your Health and Power by Christiane Northrup, MD


People

Evan Stark 


YouTube Vids

Covert Narcissism (Dr. Ramani)

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About the Podcast

Abuse Isn't What You Think
Recognize. Escape. Heal.
Are you wondering if your toxic or dysfunctional relationship might be more, might be... Abusive? You're in the right place to find out!

Go on a journey from trauma to triumph with your host, Jackie Graybill. She escaped an abusive marriage and went on to earn her Masters in Understanding Domestic and Sexual Violence. Jackie takes all of her experiences and storytelling skills to bring you compelling, eye-opening and healing content with the guests she interviews and also in her solo episodes.

Have you ever been curious about EFT Tapping? Some episodes feature this healing modality. It's powerful, free and easy to do. You don't need any equipment other than your fingers and a quiet space.

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JACKIE GRAYBILL

With a unique background in music, communication and the arts, Seattle, Nashville and London based transformational keynote speaker/singer/songwriter/podcaster and author Jackie Graybill inspires and transforms her audiences.

Jackie has taught piano for the past 22 years, has lit up the stage in eight plays and musicals and placed in the Top 10 as Miss Puget Sound 2006 at Miss America’s Miss Washington Pageant. She has released two albums and multiple singles to Spotify success (as Jackie Gray). She is also a Toastmasters International Speech Contest Winner for District 9 in 2021.

Jackie’s colorful life came crashing down into darkness when she found herself in an abusive marriage. Now free, and an overcomer who holds a Masters in Understanding Domestic and Sexual Violence, Jackie combines her original music with a message of hope by helping others recognize, escape and heal from abusive relationships.

For more information, email booking.jackiespeaks@gmail.com or visit jackiegraybillspeaks.com.